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Cultivate & Motivate

Advice, information and inspiration on parenting children with behavioral disabilities.

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Don’t Trip Over What’s Behind You

The changing seasons always bring me back to a place of hope. Hope can support the belief that good things are ahead. The truth is, we spend too much time stewing about what our unpredictable children did yesterday or last week. Looking back on our list of concerns and outrageous behaviors can shake our faith in achieving family peace.

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Is Summer Camp a Respite?

Don’t let the wind and the rain fool you. Summer is just on the other side of the hill you must climb before the school year comes to a close.

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Homework Hell

Hours of school work must done at home” seems to be a new and noxious battle cry for our sometimes-faltering educational system.

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Stalking Grace

I have some stories to tell. I’m a big believer in stories because without our own stories there is nothing but another person’s noise. Stories need to mean something.

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Coffee Free in Ten Steps

Mad Random Parenting is fueled on hope, resolve and who knows what? Sometimes caffeine seems to be the only thing that keeps me going.

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

There are few holidays that are more perplexing than Valentine’s Day. Fun Fact: This holiday is rooted in the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia, a fertility celebration observed by pagan Romans, usually on February 15.

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Within Our Reach

Yes. Christmas is over and the wrapping paper is clogging the recycling bin. Just as I was looking for a leftover ham recipe that tastes just like lobster (I didn’t find it,) some thoughtless person asked me about my New Year’s resolutions.

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Who’s Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate?

Estate planning lawyers like the one I’m married to, see all kinds of family drama. Making wills to pass along money and family possessions to one’s children provides relatives or friends with ample opportunities for indecision, meltdown and serious family revolt.

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Open Letter on the Election

If you, like me, stayed up most of the night watching this consequential election, I know how you’re feeling.

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Thanksgiving – and My Great Blue Buddy

Here we are at the official start of the holiday season. Unless you are one of those decoration overload creatives that start on Halloween (Labor Day?) – this is it.

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Present Tense

I had lunch this week with a neighbor near our home in North Carolina. She wanted to talk about the election and kitchen decorating ideas.

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Are You Feeling Stuck About the School Year?

It’s been some time since we’ve talked together about school. And you’re thinking, “That’s not a bad thing.” Why focus on the crazy making planning and IEP development process that threatens sanity on a good day?

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Simple Thanks

I know it’s hard to come up with words when “thanks” may not be the first thing you want to say to your child’s teachers and aides. Or, maybe it is what you want to say and you are still searching for words. Here are some simple words of thanks that may work.

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Practice What You Hear

When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time with my grandfather. He was a lean, loose-jointed man who didn’t make any noise when he walked.

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The Thinking Bench

This is my thinking bench. I don’t text, take calls, or edit scary first drafts here. I just think.

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